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Wrapping Up Week 13 (2014-15)

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The emotional and physical toll of my miscarriage affected our whole week, especially when it came to school.  We limped through and did manage to do something every day, but never even touched on our Bible lessons outside of family devotions in the evening.  (What?  Whatever happened to Bible first?  What sort of priorities does that show?  Believe me, I needed a lot of grace for myself.)  The week flew by quickly, however, and here’s what we did.

Math

Math is the one subject I tend to stress about getting behind in, mostly because we started Year 2 of the Mathematics Enhancement Programme a few weeks after all our other subjects for first grade.  Last year I had taken some time off from Year 1 when Ian was struggling, which meant we ended working on it all the way through our summer break and then into the first few weeks of this year.  I’d really like to finish up Year 2 when we finish the rest of our school year, but that means we don’t have a lot of wiggle room.

P1040503xThis week Ian got through lessons 46-50.  As I’ve said in the past few weeks, he’s starting to get frustrated by some of the concepts we’re working on, primarily adding and subtracting 2 digit numbers.  To help him visualize the numbers he’s working with I tried having him use math blocks this week.  It was really helpful for adding 10’s and 1’s, and I think we’ll keep using these until he’s better able to keep the place values straight in his mind.

Literature/Ambleside Online

http://litkidz.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/when-we-wer-very-young.jpgWe started term two of Ambleside Online, Year 1, which meant new poetry selections.  This term we’re reading the poems of A. A. Milne. We started through When We Were Very Young this week, and if we have time in the next few months we’ll move onto Now We Are Six.  (If we don’t get through both books during this term, I think I’ll save it for summertime because I don’t want to rush through these delightful poems.)  I’ve owned copies of these books since my childhood, but I’ve only ever read a few scattered poems over the years.  I really enjoyed getting into them this week, and they’re especially fun for my boys because the poems occasionally mention Christopher Robin.

History Cycle

This week for our study of ancient Greece we continued to read through Our Little Athenian Cousin of Long Ago by Julia Darrow Cowles.  One day while I read, Ian worked through the drawing instructions for the Parthenon from Draw and Write Through History: Greece and Rome and added that to his history notebook.

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Science

P1040407.JPGWe finished up The World of Animals this week, reading about microscopic creatures like protists and bacteria, (which aren’t really considered animals, but neither are they plants, so this was as good a time as any to talk about them).  It was a great week for getting out our microscope to look at both prepared slides and homemade ones with water from the stream at our local park.

Ian made a picture of a paramecium for his science notebook (although my fuzzy brain couldn’t remember where I had put my yarn, so he just drew the cilia rather than cutting little pieces of yarn as the book suggested).

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Extras

This was our last week reviewing Middlebury Interactive Languages (Spanish K-2), so Ian completed a few more lessons.  He has really enjoyed this program, so I intend to finish the rest of the units in the semester he’s working on before we go back to our Salsa lessons for Spanish.

We took school pictures one morning this week, and since that spoiled our regular schedule for the day I decided to take the kids to our local Children’s Museum.  They’ve been begging to go back, and everyone enjoyed the current exhibit on space (as well as all our other favorite permanent exhibits).

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Light in the Darkness of Miscarriage

P1040411eLast week felt like the longest of my life.  It started with the joy of a positive pregnancy test and the delightful anticipation of everything symbolized by that little pink line.  I celebrated with my husband and our children, rejoicing over the new little life that was joining our family.  My older boys started mentally trying to figure out exactly how long they’d have to wait to hold the new baby in their arms.

Then subsequent pregnancy tests showed a line that faded away to nothing, and by the end of the week, I had miscarried.  Our sweet little bud was gone without ever having a chance to bloom.  All the joy I had felt a few days before was washed away in a tsunami of grief that caught me completely off guard.  Our culture tries to convince us that it’s not really a child dying when a pregnancy ends in such an early stage, but my mother’s heart just couldn’t accept that.  So I let the tears flow, I mourned the loss of a precious baby I would never hold in my arms, and I looked for light in the darkness.

I know everyone mourns differently, but in case someone stumbles upon this post while facing a similar situation, I wanted to share a few of the things that helped me through those first few days of grief.

Leaning on family and friends

The night my miscarriage began, I couldn’t sleep because I couldn’t stop crying.  Finally I got up and emailed a few friends, telling them what had happened and asking them to pray for me.  Even though I knew it would be hours before they read the message, I felt their support, and it was as though they were now helping carry my burden and letting me get the rest I needed.

When morning came, that support was felt in more practical ways.  Someone brought us dinner that first night, and several others offered to do the same if we needed it in the days to come.  My parents took our older boys to spend the night with them.  Friends prayed for me across great distances and while giving me hugs at church on Sunday morning.

I think the most meaningful thing friends offered, however, was love for our baby.  I had several friends who told me they loved our little one, and for me that was the most supportive thing I could hear.  This wasn’t just some medical event; it was the death of our child.  Knowing that other people loved that child too meant we didn’t have to carry the burden of mourning alone.

I hadn’t really announced my pregnancy yet, but only because we’d just found out about it a few days before.  I’m sure we would have started telling people soon, and part of the reason I’ve always announced my pregnancies right away rather than waiting until after the first trimester is because I knew if we ever did lose a baby that I would need the support of those around me.  I can’t imagine going through that pain alone.

Looking to those who have been there

I was so thankful for the support of all my friends, but knowing that several of them had experienced the loss of a child (either before or after birth) gave me strength.  I’d seen many of them walk through their own grief, and knowing that God had brought them through it helped me trust that there was a way out of the darkness.  I was so thankful to be able to share feelings of grief with others who were familiar with it, even though I know it makes no sense to many in our society who have believed the lie that somehow this little life was less precious than others that have had time to fully bloom.

As my little ones napped one day, I put on the episode of 19 Kids and Counting when the Duggars learned that their 20th child had died in the middle of the pregnancy.  I watched and wept and let Michelle Duggar’s letter to Jubilee express some of the feelings I had trouble putting into words.  Watching the Duggar family grieve helped me feel less alone as I worked through the jumble of emotions inside me.

Trusting in the Giver of Life

My true peace, however, comes not in the process of grieving but in the hope I have through faith in Jesus Christ.  One night Eric pulled out a CD from Family Strategies on “How to Talk About Miscarriage.”  I found it so encouraging.  Rather than focusing on everything we’ll miss in not watching this child grow up, I found myself feeling blessed by the chance to play even a small role in ushering a new soul into eternity.

We’ve said that we’re willing to receive any blessing God chooses to give us, but we know they are not ours to cling to.  Our children are really the Lord’s, and who am I to say where the best place is for this precious soul to dwell?  I am thankful to have caught a glimpse of that quick flicker of life, and I look forward to someday rejoicing in heaven when I meet my child at last.

“The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

Job 1:21.

 

iWitness Books from Apologia (Crew Review)

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I’m always on the lookout for kid-friendly resources to help my children learn about the Bible, so I jumped at the chance to review three books by Doug Powell from Apologia Educational Ministries: Old Testament iWitness, New Testament iWitness, and iWitness Biblical Archeology.  These books are unlike any others I’ve come across, and it was a delight to get the chance to explore them.

About the books

What makes these 9″x6″ softcover books so unique is the way the information is presented on each page.  Rather than separating the text and illustrations, Powell (an award-winning graphic designer with a Master’s degree in Christian Apologetics) has created beautiful full-color pages that integrate the text, making it appear as handwritten notes on separate scraps of paper, parchment, or the pages of books that are part of the pictures.

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This creative presentation makes these books easily accessible for older children (reading level is about age 11 and up) while still being “meaty” enough for adults wanting to learn more about how the Bible as we know it came to exist.  I have always had a fascination with the canon of Scripture and the history of the Bible, but in spite of all I’ve previously read on the subject, there was still plenty of information in these books that was new to me.

Each book sells for $14.00.  Here’s a quick look at what they cover:

Old Testament iWitness

Apologia ReviewOld Testament iWitness tells the story of the Hebrew Scriptures:

  • the history of each book
  • the meticulous process the Jewish scribes used when making copies, ensuring that the original text was passed down over the centuries without change
  • comparison of the “Hebrew Bible” with the Old Testament used by Christians
  • what makes these books “inspired” and why are they included in the canon
  • the Old Testament in the Dead Sea Scrolls

Powell also discusses the writings of the inter-testamental period (between the last books to be written within the Old Testament canon and the books of the New Testament).

New Testament iWitness

Apologia ReviewNew Testament iWitness is just as thorough in its coverage of the New Testament books.  Much has been written in recent years about “other gospels” and early writings that are not included in the canon of Scripture.  Powell goes back to when the individual books of the New Testament were written and discusses how they were used by the church in the first few centuries after Christ.

  • lists drawn up by historical church councils
  • criteria used by early Christians to determine canonicity
  • use in the writings of early church fathers
  • rejected books not included in the canon
  • how the New Testament books were copied over the ages
  • information about various manuscript types and how scholars study them

The book provides a fascinating look at how we have been given the New Testament as we know it today.

iWitness Biblical Archaeology

Apologia Review iWitness Biblical Archeology goes through the chronology of biblical history, discussing archeological evidence that relates to biblical figures, places, and events.

  •  inscriptions about flood stories from various ancient civilizations
  • claims about finding Noah’s Ark
  • descriptions of Old Testament battles
  • copies of biblical manuscripts
  • artifacts from Jesus’ time
  • discussion about the Shroud of Turin

Powell covers all sorts of finds that would be of interest to anyone curious about archeology and how it relates to the Bible.

How We Used It

Ian and I started with Old Testament iWitness (although there’s no need to read them in any particular order).  I read aloud to him during our morning Bible time and we worked through several pages each day (as long as his attention span allowed).  Some of it was beyond his understanding, but at the same time I think it was a good introduction to learning about the canon of the Old Testament.  He may not remember the terms “Septuagint” or “Apocrypha” next week, but now that he’s been exposed, I think he’ll notice them more the next time he hears the words.  He already knew the books of the Old Testament, so he was able to understand the comparisons with the Hebrew Bible pretty well.  We haven’t covered the inter-testamental period in history yet (though we discussed it a bit in our Bible lessons when we moved from the OT to the NT), so that part was new to him.

For this review I was expected to read through these books with Ian, and while that was my original intent, I wasn’t able to get through all of them with him.  There was just too much information packed into these three books for me to get through with a 1st grader in 6 weeks.  Once I realized we weren’t going to get through all three books together I decided to skip New Testament iWitness with Ian and just cover what we could out of iWitness Biblical Archeology.

I found iWitness Biblical Archeology to be a wonderful complement to our study of ancient history.  He found the information about the epic of Gilgamesh interesting because we covered it in history earlier this year, and we’ve learned a lot about Egyptian chronology as a family so he was able to understand that as well.  I will definitely be pulling this book out the next time our history cycle covers the biblical period.  It is full of evidence for the truth of scripture and helps show children tangible evidence for what they read in the Bible.

Because I didn’t have time to read New Testament iWitness with Ian during our review period, I read through it on my own.  I found it to be a faith-building study on the history of the New Testament.  Powell does an excellent job of explaining why certain books are included and others are not.  I especially appreciate his explanation of manuscript families and textual criticism, topics of great importance to me in considering which translation(s) to use with our family.  I look forward to using it with Ian (and my other children) in the future.

My Overall Impression

Overall, I’d say at least half of the material was over Ian’s head as a 6-year old.  The visual format kept his interest fairly well as I read out loud, but I know there was a lot he didn’t understand.  However, that in no way detracts from my enthusiasm for these books.  They may not be a great fit for first grade, but I know we will turn to them over and over again in the years to come.

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Wrapping Up Week 12 (2014-15)

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This week looked a bit different for us than previous weeks.  In addition to some planned changes, we ended up having several family matters that needed my attention, so things were rather irregular. (In other words we watched a lot of videos and didn’t manage to do any notebooking.)  Here’s what we did manage to spend time on this week:

Bible

http://www.excerptsofinri.com/images/builtupontherock.jpgSomehow I forgot to take out my lesson plans for Bible Road Trip before the week started, and then when life happened I never got around to it.  We read a couple stories from Matthew in 365 Great Bible Stories at the beginning of the week, but then our only other morning Bible time was watching Built Upon the Rock (from Nest Entertainment’s Animated Stories from the New Testament).

Math

Ian got through lessons 41-45 of Mathematics Enhancement Programme (Year 2) this week, but it wasn’t as easy for him as the previous lessons have been.  Adding whole tens went fine, but now that he’s adding double digits including 5’s he’s having to think a bit more, which I’ve noticed affects his entire attitude.  When everything is easy, he flies through the lessons, but as soon as just one part starts feeling challenging, he gets frustrated and starts to shut down.  He has trouble focusing even on the easy parts, and it takes a lot longer to get through math each day.

Literature/Ambleside Online

P1030480This week we finished our first term of Ambleside Online, Year 1!  I’ve been drooling over the AO curriculum for years, so it feels really good to have finally accomplished some of it!  We’ve enjoyed all the reading, though Ian definitely had some favorites.  We didn’t quite finish all the poems in A Child’s Garden of Verses, but we’re going to put in back on the shelf and move onto next term’s poetry selection anyway.

History Cycle

History is where I made the biggest intentional changes to the way we’ve been doing school.  Mystery of History and Story of the World both go through history using a series of separate stories, but I wanted to try a slightly different approach for a while.  Rather than discussing specific episodes in history, I want to help Ian develop a sense of the era.

http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41iRSVUmQaL._SY344_BO1,204,203,200_.jpgSo this week we began our study of Ancient Greece by reading Our Little Athenian Cousin of Long Ago by Julia Darrow Cowles, a classic novel about two boys in Athens.  (It’s part of the original e-book bundle from Yesterday’s Classics.)  Ian enjoyed it, asking for me to read more each day when I’d reached the end of a chapter.  We talked about the Parthenon, the statue of Athena, and a bit about Greek culture.  It also introduced him to some of the characters in Greek mythology, and I plan to read a few myths to him once we finish (hopefully next week).

We also watched 2 Episodes of Drive Thru History: “Ancient History: Greece” and “Ancient History: Athens and Paul” (also available through the TBN Roku channel).

Science

For some reason when I wrote out our schedule of science lessons for the year I didn’t have us finishing up our first of the three books in God’s Design for Life until next week, even though this is officially the end of our first term.  This week we read through lessons 29-31 in The World of Animals.  Because of our circumstances this week we weren’t able to do any extra projects, but the kids did enjoy watching Wild Kratts Season 1, Episode 5 “Mystery of the Squirmy Wormy.”

Extras

Ian did several more lessons in Middlebury Interactive Languages, and I was really thankful that he was able to do them independently, because otherwise we wouldn’t have gotten to Spanish at all this week.

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Wrapping Up Week 11 (2014-15)

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Between a week of sickness, a week of prepping for vacation, and then being gone, we had fallen behind on some schoolwork and lost our rhythm, so this week my main goal was to get caught up and back into our routine.  It made for a full week!

Bible

We finally got back into Bible Road Trip: Year Three, picking up with the second week of lessons on Matthew.  I leaned more heavily on the Preschool/Kindergarten assignments this week so I could include the little ones in our morning Bible lesson.  I think it’s a good fit, but I’d like to integrate a bit more of the “Researching the Word” from the Lower Grammar lessons with Ian, so we’ll still play around with it a bit. (This is the main reason I prefer to use a free curriculum whenever possible–I ALWAYS end up tweaking it at least a little, and I’d feel really irritated if I had paid a lot of money for someone else’s plans only to change them!)

It’s been really good have the little ones join us in the mornings as part of what we’ve been inclusively calling “worship” (the first part of our couch time/circle time/whatever we’re going to end up naming it).  Before Nicholas goes down for his morning nap, we all gather around the piano to sing a combination of hymns, worship songs from church, and fun kids’ praise songs.  Ian likes to get out his guitar and strum along (even though he only knows 4 chords and can’t change his fingering fast enough to keep up yet), and sometimes some of them dance.  When we first started everyone seemed a little reluctant to drop what they were doing to join me in the living room, but now they all look forward to it, and on the rare morning that we skip it for some reason I hear about it!

http://www.christianfocus.com/images/items/9781845505400.jpgAfter singing, I put Nicholas to bed and we read one of the scheduled stories in 365 Great Bible Stories (according to the BRT lesson plan).   These are pretty short, and sometimes I’ll read more than one if I still have everyone’s attention.

One thing I’m not as consistent about but I’m working on is praying togeher after this.  As I was reading through Circle Time by Kendra Fletcher (of Preschoolers and Peace) I liked her suggestions of praying through the ACTS model together (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication).  I’d like to work toward that, but I think it’s a bit too much of a stretch for my kids right now.  I chose to focus this week on just the A and S.  We went around and each of us came up with a word to praise God: “God you are [patient, kind, loving, merciful, etc.].”  Then I told them to think of one thing they wanted God to help them with that day, whether with schoolwork, attitudes, relationships, or anything else they could think of.

The first day I realized that God had answered those prayers for each one of us, and I pointed it out to the boys that night during Bible time.  It was really neat to see what a difference it had made in our days, and I want to make sure I remember to include prayer time each morning before Arianna’s attention span reaches its limit, and I let her wander off.

P1040337xAfter prayer the older boys go through memory verses with me.  (We use the Scripture Memory System from Simply Charlotte Mason, which is great for reviewing verses we’ve already learned as well as practicing new ones.)  This is new to Elijah, but he’s starting to pick up several of the verses Ian has already learned, and it’s helping Ian learn new ones more quickly having someone else there.  (Right now we’re working on the Beatitudes).

Our lessons from BRT tied right in with our evening devotions in Old Story New this week, and I’m really pleased with how well they are complementing each other.  By the time we read with Daddy in the evening, the boys have heard the story and talked about it with me, so they’re much quicker to answer questions and get more about of our time with him.  I think the repetition is really good for them.

The last thing we do before moving on to other subjects is read from Prudence and the Millers, which Ian still really enjoys.  Almost every day he begs me to read an extra chapter, but I’m trying to stretch it out.

Math

Every day Ian has been asking God to help him get through his math quickly and easily, and things have never gone so smoothly for us.  This week he finished lessons 36-40 in Year 2 of MEP, and he did more independently than he’s ever been able (or willing) to try in the past.  It’s so great to see him enjoying a subject that he struggled with for a while.

Elijah also joined us for math this week.  He loves numbers, and he’s started asking to do math almost every day when he sees Ian settling down to work.  I’ve slowly been starting to go through MEP Year 1 with him, but this week it became obvious we’re going to pick up the pace a bit.

With MEP it’s usually really important to go through the activities in the lesson plans, and I’ve found that especially true with Ian.  With Elijah right now, however, most of what’s covered in the lesson plans is already really easy for him.  I’m focusing more on the practice book pages just so he can get used to the way concepts are presented there.  Eventually I’m sure I’ll need to do the complete lessons, and I’m hoping it doesn’t make our mornings drag out too much.

Actually, since he’s been happily completing more than one page per day, I may try to help him catch up with Ian by next year so I can just have them working at the same level.  (I wouldn’t try accelerating any of the other children so quickly, but Elijah is definitely gifted in math, so I think it might end up being a good option for our family.)  I told him he doesn’t have to do any schoolwork until after he turns 5 next month, but most days he begs to do math (both during our normal school time and then in the later afternoon as well!)

Literature/Ambleside Online

The main place we had fallen behind over the last few weeks was in our Ambleside Online, Year 1 reading, and it felt good to get almost all the way caught up.  I’ve decided to drop the Burgess Bird Book unless Ian asks for it or we have a little extra time.  I don’t know enough about the birds in our area to choose chapters relevant to us, and since we’re doing a lot outside of AO, I wanted to cut some of what I consider lower priority books.

http://www.artsreformation.com/talespinners/tg001/william-tell-600.jpgOne of our favorite things this week was reading about William Tell in Fifty Famous Stories Retold. I had found a couple related audio dramas from ArtsReformation.com, and Ian really enjoyed the one from Mercury Storyteller (part of “St. George and the Dragon & William Tell“).  I preferred “William Tell” from Tale Spinners for Children because it incorporated music from the familiar William Tell Overture, but it was a little too long for Ian.

History Cycle

I’ve said several times over the last few weeks that I’m moving away from using Mystery of History, Vol.1, and this week I made that official by actually erasing the chapter titles from my lesson plan book for the rest of the year.  I just want to focus less on biblical history (which we cover in depth in our Bible lessons) and more on other ancient civilizations this year.  I think I’m going to turn to Story of the World, Vol. 1 by Susan Wise Bauer to be our “spine” (at least I’ve written those chapters into my book), but we’ll see how it goes.

I really wanted to start getting into the Greeks, so this week after touching on the division of Israel after Solomon’s death, we started Greek history with the story of the Trojan horse. (Chronologically they should have been in reverse order, but I wanted a clean start to our study of Ancient Greece.)

Israel Divided

To cover the division of the kingdom, we used the Day By Day Kid’s Bible by Karen Henley.  First I read “Enemies” about King Solomon turning away from God and Ahijah’s message to Jeroboam (pages 269-270), and then Ian read aloud “One Nation Turns into Two Nations” (pages 271-272) about Solomon’s son Rehoboam’s foolish decision that drove ten tribes to reject him as their King and form the new northern kingdom of Israel under Jeroboam.

I don’t often have Ian do reading assignments, but I’d like to start trying to having him take some on, even if he’s still just reading to me.  Eventually I’ll work toward having him read independently and then come and narrate to me.

For his history notebook, he used this page from biblestoryprintables.com.

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Trojan Horse

I read the account of the legend of the Trojan Horse in A Child’s History of the World by V.M. Hillyer (Chapter 11: “A Fairy-Tale War”).  Ambleside Online uses this book starting in Year 2, so I wanted to get a feel for it, and I’ll probably use it fairly regularly this year whenever it lines up with the topics in Story of the World, Vol. 1.  Once again, biblestoryprintables.com had a quick, eye-catching page for Ian’s notebook.

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Science

Science was the other place I felt really behind, but we managed to get through lessons 24-28 in The World of Animals (covering arachnids, crustaceans, myriapods, mollusks, and cnidarians).  A lot of these animals live in the ocean, so it fit in well with Finding Nemo, which we watched the last night of our vacation.  (As we read about jellyfish and how their tentacles sting most animals but not clownfish, Ian looked at me in exasperation and said, “Mom!  I already know that!”  I bet he didn’t before the movie though!)

We didn’t get to do a lot of extras for these lessons because we were rushing through them, but Ian did make a couple arachnid models according to the directions in the book (which, thankfully, were easy enough for him to read and follow all on his own).  He really wanted to do more models (the next lesson had instructions for making one with clay), but I wasn’t up to the mess.  (Just being honest!)

Marshmallow Arachnids Collage

We watched Bill Nye the Science Guy: Animal Locomotion and read several related books together:

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Ian also really wanted me to read The Life Cycle of a Spider by Bobbie Kalman, but I didn’t want to pack too much more into our mornings.  (I always try to finish up our schoolwork by 12:30.)  He did read part of the book on his own, picking it up several times throughout the week.  I really like this series, and I’m glad to have them as part of our family library so Ian can go through them on his own.

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Extras

We’re still enjoying going through the K-2 Spanish course from Middlebury Interactive Languages.  This week Ian was working on Unit 3 on Family.  Some of this was review for him, but it’s presented very differently than the lessons we’ve done with Salsa, so I think it’s still really good for him.

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Planning with Purpose

Educating the WholeHearted Child: Chapter 16

WholeHeartedI love structure.  You might not be able to tell from looking at my house, but I get great satisfaction from bringing order and organization to most part of my life, including homeschooling.  So this chapter (“Structure:Keeping the Homeschooling Together”) was right up my alley.

One thing that stood out for me was the section on “Know Your Priorities” (p.287).  For the past few years I’ve pretty much eliminated our outside commitments, but now that the children are getting a little older, I’ve started stepping back into the world.

There’s an opportunity coming up in a couple weeks that I’m praying about for Ian.  My initial reaction was “Now way–we’re too busy).  But then I actually looked at my calendar and realized some of our other activities would be ending and that really didn’t need to be a hindrance.  So said I’d pray about it.

This section on priorities gave me a lot to think about.  In fact, I had to get out a notepad and start jotting down all that thoughts that started flying through my head with regards to this decision.  Am I just thinking about what’s convenient for me or am I considering how God would use this opportunity to develop the unique gifts He’s given Ian?  Would this really be a God-honoring activity for Ian or would it be a distraction?

I’m not ready to make a decision yet, but the Lord was definitely speaking to me through this chapter, helping me to consider the matter from multiple angles, and I trust the He will guide my husband and I to the right decision and give us peace.  I know as all our children get older, many more opportunities will arise.  This is only the first of many times we’ll need to consider our priorities and pray before letting them jump into something just because it sounds fun.

Each Mentoring Monday I share my reflections on what I’ve been learning from my “paper mentors.”  I am currently joining in a book discussion of Educating the WholeHearted Child by Clay Clarkson (with Sally Clarkson), so my Monday posts are all being sparked by things I’m reading in this fabulous book!

Preschoolers and Peace e-book (Crew Review)

I first stumbled upon Kendra Fletcher’s blog, Preschoolers and Peace, back when my oldest was just entering the preschool years.  As our family has grown, I have found myself returning to the blog over and over to find advice on how to homeschool with lots of little ones in the house.  So when I was given a chance to review Preschoolers and Peace: Homeschooling older kids with success while loving the little ones at your feet, I knew that I would find wisdom to benefit our family.

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What is it?

Preschoolers and Peace: Homeschooling older kids with success while loving the little ones at your feet is an e-book that gleans from some of the most popular posts on the Preschoolers and Peace blog.  The book sells for $2.99 and contains a wealth of information in thirteen short, easy-to-read chapters.  In it you’ll find wisdom about how to run a household and homeschool when you have young children.  If you want to go a little deeper, the “Resources” section at the end of the book contains links to articles related to each chapter for further reading.

Here’s a peek at the Table of Contents:

  • Introduction
  • Ch. 1 What a Homeschooling Mom Needs
  • Ch. 2 Preparing Yourself to Homeschool Older Kids With Little Ones Underfoot
  • Ch. 3 Planning Around Preschoolers
  • Ch. 4 How Do I Keep Them Busy?
  • Ch. 5 What Does a 2-Year-Old’s Day Look Like?
  • Ch. 6 How Do I Get Any Preschooling Done?
  • Ch. 7 How Not to Just Kill Time
  • Ch. 8 Circle Time, Or How We Pull the Little Ones In
  • Ch. 9 Preschool Boys
  • Ch. 10 When All of Your Kiddos Are Preschoolers
  • Ch. 11 Preschool Chores
  • Ch. 12 Planning for Preschool
  • Ch. 13 When Mama is Worn Out (or Pregnant)
  • Meal Planning 101
  • A Final Word of Encouragement
  • Resources

Many of the chapters are about establishing a routine with little ones and offer lots of ideas for ways to get the most out of their early years, making it helpful for any mom of young children, regardless of whether or not she has older ones as well.

My Thoughts on Preschoolers and Peace

Preschoolers and Peace ReviewI wish I had had this book a few years ago!  As I said before, I’ve found a lot of helpful advice from the Preschoolers and Peace blog, but having all of this in one place is fabulous.  I initially printed out a copy so I could highlight and make notes, but that meant I missed out on all the links, which add so much to the value of this little book, so I think reading it on my computer would be my preferred way to go through it, even though I usually try to avoid that with e-books.  (I was given a pdf copy for this review, but the book actually comes formatted for Kindle.)

The main thing I wish I had read back when Ian was Chapter 7: “How Not to Just Kill Time.”  Kendra gives suggestions for moms about filling their days when they only have little ones, things like “organize my recipes into a system that works long term” (because as they get older that would be SO helpful!) or “read the classics I haven’t read” (since it’s hard to find ANY time to read once you have a few more little ones running around).

I also loved the ideas she gives in Chapter 4: “How Do I Keep Them Busy?”  Whether you’re trying to find something for little ones to do while you homeschool older siblings or just want some ways to entertain your preschoolers, you’ll definitely find something new to try in this chapter.

We’ve already started moving toward including the little ones in our morning school routine, so I was really encouraged by what Kendra wrote in Chapter 8: “Circle Time, Or How We Pull the Little Ones In.”  I was freshly inspired to keep up my efforts in this area and excited to put into practice some of Kendra’s suggestions to help our family’s “Couch Time” (as we call it) go a little more smoothly.  (I’m thinking I may need to get her Circle Time e-book next!)

Through it all, I appreciate Kendra’s godly encouragement for other moms and the reminder to keep Christ first in all we do.  For example, when she talks about “Preparing Yourself to Homeschool Older Kids With Little Ones Underfoot” (Chapter 2), her focus is on prayer.

I realized at some point that I needed to get into a habit of praying, because all too often my first thought was, ‘What do I need to do to fix this situation?’ rather than running to prayer.  I needed to remind myself that God has the answers for me and that He wants me to put all my hope in Him, even with the seemingly minor details, such as how I was going to manage nursing the baby while trying to keep the toddler from getting into the trash can and helping that third grader with her math.  Even that” (page 6).

Reading this brought me such a sense of relief.  I’m not alone.  Other moms have the same struggles.  Even better, here’s a mom who has been there and can remind me to look to God when I’m in the throes of parenting lots of little people.

I found this book to be incredibly encouraging, and I highly recommend it to any mother staying home with young children.

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Get to Know Jesus by Nancy I. Sanders (Book Review)

http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51nimCKHugL.jpgI have now read three books in the Get to Know series by Nancy I. Sanders, and while I enjoyed them all, I was especially impressed by Jesus (Zondervan, 2014).  Although it is written for elementary aged children, I think it would be a great read for anyone wanting to know more about the man Sanders says “is probably the most famous person who ever lived” (page 11).

What It’s About

The book begins with evidence for the historical truth of the Bible and then gives the reader some important background information that will help them understand different facets of Jesus’ life.  Sanders discusses the idea of the Messiah, both as the Savior promised from the time Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden of Eden and as the later hope the Jews had for someone who would deliver them from the oppressive rule of the Roman Empire.  She discusses Jewish history and customs, as well as the promises in the Old Testament that pointed toward the coming of Christ.

Then Sanders draws from all four Gospels to created a detailed account of Jesus’ life.  In addition to going telling his story chronologically, there are separate chapters devoted to Jesus’ teachings and the miracles he performed.  After discussing the resurrection, the book includes an account of the early church and then ends with message Jesus gave the apostle John in Revelation (the final book of the Bible), which gives the future part of Jesus’ story.

My thoughts

There is so much information packed into this little book, but it is still a fairly easy read for children. There are quotes from the NIrV interspersed throughout the text, which is consistent with about a third grade reading level.  I think Ian is almost ready to read this on his own, and I’m considering making it a required part of our Bible lessons for school this year.  I think Sanders does an excellent job of helping children understand why certain things happened the way they did and why people acted in ways that might not make sense to modern readers.

Like the other books in this series, Jesus is full of beautiful color maps, photographs, and artwork, making it an appealing read for anyone interested in learning about Christ.  I enjoyed this book even more than Mary and King David and look forward to reading the rest of the Get to Know series.

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Vacation Schooling

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We were on vacation this week so we didn’t do any official lessons, but when you’ve developed a learning mindset in your family, you tend to find educational opportunities everywhere you go.  We spent a week camping along the central coast of California, which I think is one of the most beautiful places on earth.

Whether just hiking and playing around our campground and the beach next to it or venturing a little further out, our whole family enjoyed learning about the history of the area and some of the wonders of God’s Creation.

The boys had plenty of opportunities to observe insects up close, including beetles and a praying mantis.  We also had daily visits from the raccoons around our campsite.

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We visited Heart Castle and learned a bit about architecture and art.

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We explored some tidepools and collected things at the beach.

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We fed sea lions and admired beautiful sea creatures at the Morro Bay Aquarium and learned about local geology at the Morro Bay Natural History Museum.

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I love the freedom that homeschooling brings!  Not only do we get to take off on vacation during the off season, our kids take delight in learning as a lifestyle.

My #1 Job: Love

Educating the WholeHearted Child: Chapter 15

WholeHeartedChildren are an expression of the heart of God.  He loves them and created mothers so they would love them too… As you understand that perfect design and accept it as God’s blessing for you and your children, you strengthen your heart for them and reflect the heart of God to them” (page 280).

When Ian was a baby, I was giddy with the excitement of being a mother at last.  As I prayed about how to be the best mother I could be, I very clearly heard the Lord tell me I only had one job with Ian: to LOVE him.

So simple, but that little word encompasses SO much.  Security.  Acceptance.  Affection.  Grace.

Not only is loving those around us the second greatest commandment after loving God, it is the essential element of our mission as mothers.  Our children learn about the love of God through us.

It seemed like an easy job when he was a baby, but as the years have passed, I’ve realized it is deceptively simple.  The older my children get, the less I feel like I am loving them the way God called me.

I find myself losing sight of my number one job and getting caught up in other tasks, like training and teaching them.  Child-training important, but it’s not supposed to be my focus.  P1040017xI am especially prone to getting distracted by the academic side of homeschooling, simply because I love learning and I delight in sharing the journey with my children.  But educating them is not my number one job.  I am called to LOVE them.

I want to remind myself to set everything else aside when it seems that I’m losing my focus.  I put on this temporary “love tattoo” to help me to keep this in the forefront of my mind this week.  We are taking a break from all schoolwork, and I hope that I can use the time to be intentional about pouring love into my children’s hearts, that when we go back to our routine, their “love tanks” will be filled, and they will have tasted the sweetness of the Father’s love for them.

Each Mentoring Monday I share my reflections on what I’ve been learning from my “paper mentors.”  When I got sick a couple weeks ago, these posts were one of the first things to get pushed aside.  I actually did keep up with my reading, however, and I wanted to try to get back into the habit of writing reflections even though I didn’t write about the last few weeks’ worth of reading, just because it helps me stay focused and accountable.

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