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Bible Time: Thanksgiving Devotional

We’re taking a break from our normal nightly devotional and instead use our Bible Time to focus on the holidays through a Scriptural lens.  Last night we started using a Thanksgiving Devotional  I wrote for this week and thought I’d share it in case any other families could be blessed by it.  I only wrote up six days because I’m sure we’ll take one night off (we’re celebrating 2 nights in a row with different parts of the family).   It’s nothing fancy (maybe next year I’ll expand on it a little), but I’d thought I’d share  anyway.

In addition to Scripture passages, I used three books from our Thanksgiving collection (see below), but they’re not essential.  You could easily just use the Bible readings each night.  (I used the ESV, which uses “steadfast love” for the Hebrew word “chesed,” which we talked about the first night. Other than that, the translation shouldn’t matter too much.)  One night does talk a bit about the Pilgrims, but any basic book about their story (or just telling the story yourself) would work.

    

Happy Thanksgiving!

 

More Classical Music My Kids Love

One of the subjects I’d like to be a part of our children’s education is music appreciation.  Ian’s already learning to play piano and enjoy making music through a Yamaha course, but I also want to help them all become familiar with some of the beautiful music that has been enjoyed for centuries through a little composer study à la Charlotte Mason.  Our children are still so young, but my plan for the next few years until we are “officially” homeschooling is to gradually add in the subjects that I want to be a part of our curriculum.  Otherwise it would be pretty overwhelming when Ian turns six if I suddenly try to jump into everything at once.  So since I have a fairly extensive background in music (not to mention an absurdly large collection of classical music CDs), I’ve decided now is a good time to start being a little more intentional in this area. (I tend to think in terms of the schoolyear starting in August, even though I intend to homeschool year round, taking breaks as we need them rather than a big summer holiday)

Last year I shared about some of the music we started listening to when they were quite little in the post “Music My Preschoolers Love.”  They still enjoy all those pieces, but now they’re also ready for a few more mature findings.  Yes, they’re SO mature now that the oldest is 4 1/2.  Seriously though, having been exposed to it early has made them more open to hearing things not necessarily meant for children so young.  I especially like finding CDs or other audio files that explain a bit about the music and give the kids something specific to be listening for.  For example, after hearing the composer tell about using tubas to portray the big boats in Mike Mulligan and the Steam Shovel, Elijah started asking, “Mommy, is that the big tubas?” every time they played.

Mike Mulligan and His Steam ShovelThat CD is the first one we bought from the Maestro Classics series.  It was such a hit, both with the boys and with me, that I also decided to get Peter and the Wolf, even though we already have another recording of this piece. I just really like all the extras that come on their albums–(plus the Peter and the Wolf (MP3) was just $5 thanks to a coupon from HomeschoolShare–they’re also sponsoring a giveaway until the end of July so check it out!)  And we just got The Soldier’s Tale to include in the last week of our July composer study on Stravinsky (post coming soon).  I’ve put the rest on the kids’ wishlists for gift ideas and I hope we can eventually collect the whole set.  Here are all the titles available:

The Maestro Classics website also has homeschool curriculum guides with lots of great suggestions for integrating different subjects with the music from each CD.Beethoven Lives Upstairs

Another great resource for exposing your children to the works of the great composers is the Classical Kids series.  A fellow homeschooler shared these with us, and while I haven’t yet listened to all of them yet, they get great reviews.  They tell a story about the composers’ lives, using various pieces of their music throughout the CD.  What a great way to help your kids become familiar with the unique musical “voice” of different composers!  Over the next school year I’ll be using these as the framework for our composer study, choosing one CD a month and supplementing with podcasts from Classics for Kids (lots of great resources there!), music from my own collection and kid-friendly biographies from the library.

There are two additional Classical Kids CDs that are thematic rather than being about a particular composer.

And just in case you needed any more ideas, I’ve recently added to our music library a couple other albums combining classical music (or classical style) with engaging stories.  We’ll be listening to Ferdinand the Bull and Friends when we “row” The Story of Ferdinand.   And although our listening schedule looks pretty packed this year, I’m really looking forward to queezing in some time for the award-winning Baroque Adventure: The Quest for Arundo Donax

Wow!  That’s a lot of music!  I hope you’ll try out some of our suggestions and share some of your family’s favorites in the comments. 🙂

(If you’re interested in implementing Charlotte Mason-style composer study in your home, check out Ultimate Guide to Composer Study over at Homegrown Learners for lots of great information and ideas!)

Book review: Parenting With Scripture

I’ve been meaning to share some of my favorite parenting books, and tonight I was reminded of that once again.  I picked up Parenting with Scripture: A Topical Guide for Teachable Moments by Kara Durbin almost two years ago, though I realized I wouldn’t get a lot of use out of it until my kids got a little older.  Lo and behold, that moment is here.

The book is basically a list of Scriptures organized by topics you would deal with in instructing your children in God’s ways (e.g. apathy, bragging, cooperation, listening…)  It is designed to make it easy (and quick) to find the Scripture references you need when discussing such matters with your kids.

For example, tonight I asked my son a question.  He knew answering truthfully would mean he couldn’t do something he wanted to do.  So he lied.  We’ve never talked about lying because it’s never happened before.  So first I defined “lying.”  (It helped that he had watched Pinocchio last night.  I wonder if that’s where he got the idea?)  Then I told him to go get his Bible.  While he was retrieving it, I ran to my shelf to grab Parenting with Scripture.  I looked up “lying” in the index, and it sent me to the entry on “honesty.”  I turned there, skimmed the eight verses listed, and selected the one that seemed the most clear cut and easy for him to understand. I noted the reference in my mind and set the book aside so that when he came back I could take him in my lap.  We looked up Proverbs 12:22 in his Bible: “Lying lips are an abomination to the LORD, but those who act faithfully are his delight.”  We talked about what that meant, and then I had him repeat a prayer of confession after me.  He got very teary-eyed as he prayed, so then I showed him 1 John 1:9 (“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.)  He stopped crying and we cuddled for a while.  Teachable moment, indeed.

It was so helpful to have a reference to point me to an appropriate Bible verse quickly.  I am thankful for all the time Kara Durbin put into creating such a practical resource for parents.  I know it will get plenty of use in the years to come as we seek to train up our children in the way they should go.  I highly recommend it for all Christian parents!

“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work”  2 Timothy 3:16-17

Note: I have the original edition of the book.  The link above is for the new edition released April 1, 2012.

Classical Music My Preschoolers Love

Bernstein Favorites: Children's ClassicsYesterday as I was driving Ian home from his music lesson, he requested the same music we’d listened to on the way over.  It made me smile that he enjoyed it so much, and it got me thinking about some of the classical music that has really “clicked” with him over the last year or two.  So I thought I’d share some of our favorites.

When Ian was two, I decided to start being intentional about providing him with classical music to listen to and enjoy.  The first thing I thought of was Prokofiev’s Peter and the Wolf.  There are many different recordings available, but I chose the one from the CD Bernstein’s Favorites: Children’s Classics because it also contained some other pieces I liked.  To introduce the story I read it to him from a couple different books.  I bought the first one because it was a nice stand-alone story even without referencing the music.  Then I ran across another version at the library bookstore and figured it was worth 50 cents for another one that talked a little about the instruments that play the themes for each character.  (It’s an older copy and I couldn’t find it on Amazon, but it’s similar in idea to this one, which comes with a CD.)  Ian also loved the old Disney video of the story.  (I saw a number of VHS copies on Amazon, but as far as DVD, I could only find it on Make Mine Music, a collection of different musical vignettes).  Ian was enchanted by this story right from the start, and it continues to be one of his favorite things to listen to in the car.  (His enthusiasm is contagious, because now Elijah is really getting into it as well.)

The second piece I thought Ian would like was the Carnival of the Animals by Camille Saint-Saens.  This one took a little longer to grow on him, but we’ve listened to it a lot, and there are certain parts he really likes (the “Royal March of the Lion” and the “Fossils” are his favorites).  We have two recordings of this.  It is also on the Bernstein’s Favorites: Children’s Classics I mentioned above.  In this recording, Bernstein provides some explanation for the music that goes with each animal, which can be helpful at first, but I find it a little tiresome after a while.  I prefer listening to the straight music on the CD that came with a book that helps kids know what they’re listening to with each piece.  The book is better for older children, but I just summarize the information for Ian, and he loves looking at the pictures.

Hansel & Gretel/ Alice in WonderlandThe latest addition to our children’s classical library was Hansel and Gretel.  I wanted to introduce Ian to the music from Humperdinck’s opera without overwhelming him with the entire thing.  I was hoping to find a CD version of the Disney vinyl record I listened to growing up, but it doesn’t seem to exist.  So then I searched for something with just highlights in English, preferrably with some narration.  The only album I found that met those criteria was this one that also included a telling of Alice in Wonderland set to music.  (However, Ian’s been so thrilled with Hansel and Gretel, we keep going back to listen to it again and haven’t made it to the second half of the CD, so I can’t comment on that yet!)

If your preschooler has become attached to a particular piece of classical music, please add a comment–we’d love suggestions!

Update: For more ideas, check out “More Classical Music My Kids Love“!

Scripture Memory Songs–and a giveaway!

If you’ve read any of my posts about our Bible lessons, you know how much I value music for helping us memorize Scripture.  When possible I love to find a CD with our verse on it so I can include it in our iPod playlist.  If I can’t find one, I’ll try to set the verse to a familiar tune.  Here are the CDs we have in our personal library right now:

And I’m always looking for new ones.  I’ve had my eye on the “Seeds Family Worship” CDs for a while, and today I found out about a giveaway of a couple other CDs that sound wonderful!  So I thought I’d write about it, both so I can enter the giveaway and to share with you!  Here’s a quick glimpse at what’s being offered:

“God’s Word From A to Z”

Abe & Liza Philip have produced an album for children called God’s Word From A to Z. This album is a delightful collection of 26 important Bible verses (from A to Z) set to music.

“Ascending”, “Pure Words” and “Songs From the 40′s, 50′s and 60′s” 

Jamie Soles has produced three albums of Psalms set to music. Nearly all of the Psalms on these albums are word for word taken from the English Standard Version and each song is a full Psalm (Psalm 46 is divided into two songs).

Ascending – Psalms 120-134, The Psalms of Ascent

Pure Words – Psalms 1-16

Songs From the 40′s, 50′s and 60′s – A collection of Psalms from Psalm 42-69

For more details on the CDs and how to enter the giveaway, check out Raising Olives (one of my favorite blogs!)

Karen and Kids Podcast

If you’re like me, you’re always looking for fun new ways to plant Scriptural truths in your children’s hearts.  One of the fun ways I’ve found to to this is through a podcast (fronm a radio program) called Karen & Kids, which I stumbled across on iTunes last year.  Ian LOVES it!  Each episode is about 14 minutes long, including songs and discussion between Karen Mortimer (a songwriter) and a group of children about a Bible story or particular spiritual principle.  The songs are also available on CD, but the discussion is something you just don’t find very often, so I really appreciate the whole show.

My favorite thing about Karen & Kids is the way she speaks to the kids at their level without being the least bit condescending.  She’s always very respectful, and I love hearing the kids’ thoughts on the stories.  The one thing I would change about the show is the song choice.  Karen has written many fun songs for kids, some of them about the Bible and spiritual matters, others about random things (like the Chesapeake Bay, a wiggly tooth,  and a “Ladybug Picnic”).  The songs are fun, but they often don’t relate to the main topic of the day, and since we’re listening mainly for the Christian content I tend to get impatient for those songs to be over.  Still, they do help convey the message that spiritual matters are not to be segregated from the rest of our lives, so I keep my thoughts on those songs to myself and just let the boys enjoy listening.

One final thought.  I download every episode and save them so I can use them in my iPod playlists as they correspond to our Bible lessons.  Just adds a little something special to our week!

still to come

Now that I’m almost caught up to where we are with our Bible lessons, I just wanted to mention that I do plan on posting on other subjects as well.  We’re just about done with our first run-through of Before Five in a Row (B4FIAR), where we’ve pretty much just read the books.  As we start going through them again, I’m hoping to do a few more activities with Ian related to each book so I’ll be sharing about those.

I also want to be able to share some of the great homeschool resources I’ve come across. My oldest may only be three, but I LOVE research.  I also like to know where I’m going, so I’m usually a few steps ahead of where we need to be.  I read marriage books as a teenager, parenting books as a single teacher, and I started looking into homeschooling before Ian had turned two.  So nowadays I’m reading a lot about the early elementary years, and I’ve come across some great resources for families trying to homeschool on a strict budget.

The other thing I hope to post on are parenting books and other resources that have really impacted me.  I think it’s so important to be intentional in the way we raise our children, rather than just reacting to the issues that come up.  I’m looking forward to reviewing some of the books that have shaped my vision for parenting.  (Again, my oldest is only three.  I’m no expert.  BUT that researching bug has helped me discover some of the REAL experts out there.)

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