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Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas!
I was delightfully surprised by this winsome book. We have a new baby in the house, and with four other children who find it difficult to contain their youthful exuberance, I can relate all too well to the story of trying to quiet down the excited crowd so the little one can get some sleep. In Goodnight, Manger, Laura Sassi uses simple rhymes to tell about the wiggly baby Jesus trying to go to sleep amidst a noisy audience of animals, angels, shepherds, and kings. Mary finally convinces everyone to join in a quiet lullaby and at last the baby drifts off.
Award winning artist Jane Chapman’s beautiful illustrations enhance the already charming story. Each picture catches the eye its warm, vibrant colors. The Holy Family is refreshingly portrayed with authentic ethnic coloring. And the characters exude a joy that pulls the reader into the jubilant stable and makes them want to join the festivities.
If you’re looking for a serious, straight forward telling of the story of Jesus’ birth, this is not the book for you. However, if you’re looking for a sweet bedtime story to share with your children, this book is sure to delight your entire family, not just at Christmas, but all year long!
“If I had not come…” John 15:22
What would the world be like today in Jesus had not come? That’s the question posed by David Nicholson in the book If He Had Not Come, based on a classic Christmas story by Nan F. Weeks originally published in an anthology back in 1938. Nicholson first heard the story almost 30 years ago and enjoyed sharing it with his family year after year. Now he has brought it back into print so a new generation of children and their families can reflect on all that Jesus brought to the world as they celebrate his birth at Christmas time.
If He Had Not Come is the story of a boy named Bobby who falls asleep on Christmas Eve whispering the words of John 15:22, which he read with his dad before bedtime: “If I had not come…” Before he knows it he hears a voice calling him to wake up, and as he heads downstairs in anticipation of celebrating Christmas morning, he finds that his world has changed. There are no decorations and no presents to be seen. He runs outside to look around, and as he walks though town he notices that no stores are closed for the holiday and many things are missing: his church, the Children’s Home, the hospital, the homeless shelter… even the New Testament in his Bible. As he searches, all he find are signs with the words “If I had not come.”
Bobby sat down, stunned at the thought of a world without Jesus. “No Christmas, no churches,” he whispered, “no places to help people who are sick, homeless, or in need…”
Then he hears the sound of church bells and wakes up rejoicing as he recognizes “Joy to the World, the Lord is Come.” The story ends with his prayer of thanks as he acknowledges, “You are the very best Christmas present anyone can have.” The final pages of the book contain suggestions for family (or Sunday School class) discussions to help children think more deeply about the story.
If He Had Not Come is recommended for ages 6 and up, so I found a time when I could read it just with Ian. Even at 6, I’m not sure he was fully ready for it. He wasn’t very responsive to the story, and my attempts to engage him in any sort of discussion fell flat. Still, I think it’s an important addition to our Christmas library, and I expect in a few years we’ll be able to go a lot deeper, once the story has really settled with him. I have no doubt that fruit will eventually grow from the seeds planted by reading the book each year.
As a parent, I appreciate the final pages by Josh Mulvihill (a children’s pastor), who goes into more depth about all the ways Christ’s life has impacted our world. Not only would we be lacking many universities, hospitals, and charitable organizations, we would be spiritually lost. A page on “The Gospel Message” spells out the A-B-C (Admit-Believe-Confess) model of repenting and receiving God’s great gift of salvation.
If He Had Not Come reminds us what Christmas is really about, and I think families will benefit from pondering its important message in the midst of celebrating the birth of Christ.
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Jacob’s Gift by Max Lucado (a young carpenter’s apprentice gives the manger he has worked on to be Christ’s first bed)
The Crippled Lamb by Max Lucado (a lamb who is sad about not being able to go out into the fields gets to be present when Christ is born)
The Light of Christmas by Dandi Daley Mackall (rhyming story about Jesus, the Light of the World, not just at his birth, but for all time)
Amahl and the Night Visitors by Gian Carlo Menotti (a young crippled boy meets the 3 kings on their journey and his healed after deciding to give his crutch to the baby Jesus, based on the opera by the same name)
The Legend of the Christmas Tree by Rick Osborne (teaches about the symbolism of Christmas trees)
The Candy Maker’s Gift: The Inspirational Legend of the Candy Cane by David and Helen Haidle (the symbolism behind the candy cane)
The 12 Days of Christmas: the story behind a favorite Christmas song by Helen Haidle (with explanations of the items in the song)
The Last Straw by Paula Palangi McDonald (a family creates a bed for Jesus as they perform kind deeds for one another)
If He Had Not Come by Nan F. Weeks (retold by David Nicholson) (a boy dreams of a world with Christ and realizes the Jesus is the best gift ever given)
Josie’s Gift by Kathleen Long Bostrom (the story of a girl who learns that Christmas is not about what we want, but what we have)
Great Joy by Kate DiCamillo (a little girl shares the joy of Christ’s birth with a lonely organ-grinder)
Christmas Oranges retold by Linda Bethers (the story of an orphan girl whose friends show her great love through their gift to her)
The Christmas Candle by Richard Paul Evans (about a man who discovers joy in giving to the poor)
The Legend of Saint Nicholas: A Story of Christmas Giving by Dandi Daley Mackall (a boy learns about the story of St. Nicholas and gains a new outlook on giving)
Penny’s Christmas Jar Miracle by Jason F. Wright (a wonderful story about love and the joy of doing something for others)
The Princess and the Kiss: Three Gifts of Christmas by Jennie Bishop (After her parents decide a princess should only receive three gifts rather than her usual bounty, she learns that true joy comes from giving.)
The Candle in the Window by Grace Johnson (the story of an unhappy cobbler who discovers joy in giving “unto the least of these”)
The Light of Christmas by Richard Paul Evans (a boy sacrifices his own desires to help someone in need and is rewarded in the end)
The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree by Gloria Houston (the story of a family’s love and sacrifice during hard times)
The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey by Susan Wojciechowski (a story of hope about a man transformed by love)
Angela and the Baby Jesus by Frank McCourt (a little girl takes the figure of baby Jesus home from church because he seems cold)
(NOTE: As I’ve discovered new books, I’ve replaced some of the titles in the original post. I’m keeping them around for when I want to wrap up books for more kids each day, but these are currently my 25 favorites for elementary-age children.)
I’ve listed them in subject groups rather than the order I pass them out. I do tend to give most of the books about symbols early on so that the kids will recognize them and make the connection to Christ as we go through the season, but as a general rule I try to mix them up a bit so we don’t end up with all the stable/animal stories in a big clump. I just thought these groups would be more helpful for anyone not familiar with the books.
Jesus, Me and My Christmas Tree by Crystal Bowman (A little girl goes through various ornaments on her tree that relate to the Christmas story.)
J is for Jesus by Crystal Bowman (rhyme about the symbolism of the candy cane)
Christmas Angels by Crystal Bowman (rhyming story about angels in the Christmas story so children think of the Bible when they see angel decorations)
A Star for Jesus by Crystal Bowman (rhyming story about the Christmas star)
The Pine Tree Parable by Liz Curtis Higgs (a story about a farmer and his wife who make a sacrifice that brings great joy. Bible verses throughout.)
Mary, Did You Know? by Mark Lowry, illustrated by Phil Boatwright (beautiful illustrations and accompanying Scripture verses)
We Three Kings traditional carol illustrated by Gennady Spirin (The pictures are probably more pleasing to adults, but I like the chance to expose my children to beautiful art.)
The Animals’ Christmas Carol illustrated by Helen Ward (beautiful pictures to go along with the medieval carol “The Friendly Beasts”)
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The Little Drummer Boy illustrated by Ezra Jack Keats (a favorite song of ours, with pictures by the author of The Snowy Day)
12 Days of Christmas beautifully illustrated by Laurel Long (in the right order, which is surprisingly hard to find!)
Away in a Manger illustrated by Thomas Kinkade (all three verses, with paintings of both the manger scene and an old-fashioned village)
This is the Stable by Cynthia Cotton (full of repetition and rhyme, similar to “This is the House That Jack Built”)
Christmas in the Manger by Nola Buck (simple rhymes about those present at Jesus’ birth)
The Christmas Star by Marcus Pfister (beautiful watercolor and glitter illustrations by the author/illustrator of The Rainbow Fish)
Song of the Stars by Sally Lloyd-Jones (full of excitement about the arrival of Jesus–I like to save this one for Christmas morning because it captures the joy when the wait is over)
Humphrey’s First Christmas by Carol Heyer (about a self-absorbed donkey who goes with the three kings to find Christ and realizes that he alone is worthy of praise)
Baby Jesus is Born by Juliet David (Very simple retelling of the whole Christmas story, starting with the angel visiting Mary and ending with the family returning to Nazareth.)
The Christmas Story: The Brick Bible for Kids by Brendan Powell Smith (I am not a fan of the Brick Bible in general, and I hesitated even to buy this because I didn’t want to support the anti-Christian author, but several trusted friends recommended it and I knew my boys especially would love it, so I decided to find a used copy for our family. If your kids are sensitive, be warned that it does include the part of the story where Herod orders the baby boys of Bethlehem killed.)
Room for a Little One by Martin Waddell (about the animals in the stable when Jesus was born)
The Animals’ Christmas Eve by Gale Wiersum (a counting book about the animals in the stable)
Who is Coming to Our House? by Joseph Slate (about the animals getting ready to welcome baby Jesus to their stable)
Bethlehem Night by Julie Stiegemeyer (story of the night Christ was born, told in rhyme–good fit for Christmas Eve)
Baboushka and the Three Kings by Ruth Robbins (An old Russian story about a woman who meets the wise men on their way to visit the Christ child.)
Mouskin’s Christmas Eve by Edna Miller (classic story about a mouse who finds his way into a house at Christmastime and finds peace in the shelter of a manger scene)
Mortimer’s Christmas Manger by Karma Wilson (also about a little mouse exploring a manger scene, but a more detailed story)
If you have school-age kids, check out 25 CHRISTmas Picture Books for Older Children. I hope your family finds some new favorites to enjoy this Christmas!
(NOTE: As I’ve discovered new books, I’ve replaced some of the titles in the original post. I’m keeping them around for when I want to wrap up books for more kids each day, but these are currently my 25 favorites for preschool-age children.)
The book begins with a boy named Nick who is reluctantly taken shopping to find gifts for his brothers (though he’s hoping to have enough money to buy something for himself as well). While he’s shopping, he overhears the store Santa telling some children the story of St. Nicholas, who found great joy in using his wealth to give gifts to others. Before Nick goes home, he not only buys presents for his brothers but also uses the remainder of his money to buy toys for poor children.
It’s a sweet story, and there were many things I liked about it. Most of the details about St. Nicholas are based on traditional stories passed down about him (like his travels, the wealth he inherited from his parents, and his gift of dowries for three sisters who could not afford to get married). I loved the way Nicholas turned to God for guidance in a way that was very natural and not at all contrived.
That night, Nicholas talked things over with God. “Father, could this be the work you have for me?” As if in answer, the church bells rang. Nicholas remembered what his mother had said about the wise kings bringing gifts to baby Jesus. He thought of what his father said about Jesus being the greatest gift. What better time to give gifts than on Jesus’ birthday!
The illustrations by Richard Cowdrey are beautiful, but I was a little puzzled by the choice to make the pictures from St. Nicholas’ life look like they were set in the 1800’s. The scene with a fancy horse-drawn carriage and his father in a top hat looked like it belonged in a story set in the time of Charles Dickens rather than St. Nicholas, who lived about 300 years after Christ. Aside from this anachronism, however, I thought the illustrations added to the charm of the book. I especially liked the pages at the end when the story transitions back the the present, and you flip from a picture of Nicholas to one of Nick with an identical expression, capturing how the vision of giving had been passed on.
He could imagine how good it must have felt to secretly give his friends what they had wanted most. Nick had almost forgotten why people gave presents at Christmas. He wanted to feel that same joy of giving.
I thought this book did a great job of teaching an important lesson without sounding preachy. My children mostly enjoyed it because it was about two boys who shared a name with their little brother, but I am glad to have it as a part of our Christmas library to remind them of the joy that comes from focusing on giving gifts rather than receiving them.
Growing up I always felt like Christmas was a magical time, and as an adult I strove to recreate that feeling to no avail. What I finally realized this year was that the feeling I felt as a child was almost entirely about the Christmas morning gift orgy. Our one Christ-related tradition was attending Mass at my father’s church on Christmas Eve (the one time of year we ever went), and for me even that was about presents, since I was allowed to open one gift that night if I behaved well in church. I saw that hour as a trial I had to endure to reach my goal of presents. My childhood mindset was:
Christmas = Present Day.
Can anyone relate?
This was the first in many years that I was again overwhelmed with a sense of wonder. I think the main difference was that we chose to focus on Advent rather than Christmas. As a child, the only thing I knew about Advent was that my aunt sent us an “Advent calendar” every year, which for me was essentially a countdown until Present Day. I opened each door with increasing anticipation, knowing I was one day closer to the bliss of satisfying my rather serious case of ” the wants.”
Very little of our celebration this year was about presents on December 25th. Instead we used the 4 weeks prior to Christmas to celebrate the turning point of human history. We immersed our family in the story of Christ’s birth, beginning with the promise God made back in Genesis 3:15 about Eve’s seed bruising the head of the serpent. We talked about blessing others and showing love, just as God showed us His love by sending Jesus. Our whole family went caroling in two retirement homes and spent time just chatting with several residents afterward. We had fun making spice dough ornaments and candy cane reindeer and giving them away to special friends and relatives. We talked about various Christmas traditions and how they point us toward God and remind us of the Christmas story.
Our nightly family “Bible Time” around the Advent wreath became everyone’s favorite part of each day. The boys took turns helping light the appropriate candles and blowing them out after we sang together. Ian’s favorite song this season was “O Come O Come Emmanuel and he requested it every night, even when it wasn’t the song suggested in our devotional book (We Light The Candles by Catharine Brandt). On Christmas Eve after the candlelight service at church, our extended family joined us for dinner and our final night with the Advent wreath. The boys were so excited about finally lighting the Christ candle in the middle! We read Song of the Stars by Sally Lloyd-Jones, which portrays the excitement of all Creation at the wonder that “the one who made us has come to live with us.” The angel choir proclaims, “It’s time! He’s come! At last! He’s here!” It’s a wonderful book that captures the essence of Christmas as the climax of Advent, and it was the perfect way to end our season.
The result of all of this celebration is that we spent very little time talking about gifts. Last year Ian was constantly poring through the numerous catalogs that kept arriving in the mail, which really captured his heart and caused him to focus on his “wants.” I was so tired of hearing “I want ___,” “Can we get ___ sometime?” and so on that I finally threw all the catalogs away. This year when they started arriving months ago I looked through them on my own for gift ideas and then got them out of the house. I bought most of our gifts months in advance so I too would be able to focus on the wonder of Christ’s Incarnation rather than Present Day. I know some people like to wrap up everything from toothbrushes to socks to make Christmas morning a little more exciting, but I felt that was counter to what we were trying to accomplish. So I didn’t stuff stockings with everyday items I would have bought for my kids anyway, because that felt like it would make Christmas morning all about unwrapping presents. (We did plenty of gift opening, but it almost felt like an addendum to a wonderful season of celebration, rather than being the main event.) At our cousins’ house we read the Christmas story from Luke 2 before having our meal and progressing to gift-opening. There was just so much more to Christmas than Present Day!
My dad’s birthday is on the 25th, so as we were about to dive into our breakfast someone asked if we were going to sing happy birthday. My dad pretended to look surprised and said, “Whose birthday is it? Jesus’? Well, did you sing happy birthday to Jesus?” To which Elijah promptly answered very seriously, “Yes, we did,” remembering the “Happy Birthday, Jesus” party with our homeschool group two weeks ago. It had been just one more part of our month-long celebration, and I loved that Elijah knew it was all connected.
All in all, we had a wonderful Advent and Christmas. I am so thankful that my children were able to enjoy the true wonder of the season by setting aside their “wants” and marveling in the miracle of Christ’s birth. I’m already full of ideas for next year, and I hope we can continue to make Advent a meaningful part of our family tradition.
I’m somewhat selective about what books I choose to have in our Christmas collection. I generally only have one qualification: no Santa-related stories (unless they are talking about the historical St. Nicholas). There is just so much focus on that aspect of Christmas everywhere you turn that we try to keep things Christ-centered in our home. Those books that don’t specifically focus on Jesus relate to giving, love, light, or other qualities of Christmas that we want to emphasize. Last year I only did one book a day (an occasionally two if they were board books or really short stories) since just the older boys were participating in our daily Advent activities, but this year I wanted to give two books so I did purchase a few more (usually used on Amazon). Consequently some of the books are a bit redundant (lots of stories set in the stable). Still, there are plenty of treasures that I’d buy again if anything were to happen to our first copies. I’ve marked those absolute favorites* on the list.
Books about Baby Jesus
Books that illustrate or tell about carols/songs
Books that teach about Christmas traditions
Books with stories about the Spirit of Christmas
Miscellaneous
So many good books! I tried to be really choosey about which ones I starred so it didn’t seem like the non-starred ones were no good. I enjoy all of them! If I didn’t, they’d get kicked off the list and passed on to make room for other treasures. If you know of any other Christmas books you think we should add to our collection, please comment!
Other Crew members will be sharing about what they are reading throughout this season so visit the Schoolhouse Crew blog for the Christmas Books Round-Up for more ideas. Merry Christmas!
My favorite new tradition, however, is our Advent wreath. I’d heard about them before, but I had never had one in my home. I’m not sure what prompted me to buy one this year, but even just a few days into the season I can already tell it’s one of the best Christmas purchases I’ve ever made. Each night when we do “Bible Time” we light the appropriate candle as Eric leads us in a devotion from We Light The Candles, including a Bible passage, an explanation, a prayer, and (my favorite) a suggested carol to sing. (I’ve been very intentional about playing these specific carols during the day so they’re familiar enough for everyone to sing along in the evenings.) The boys have been caught up in the beauty of our family sitting together with only the light of the candle and our Christmas tree, reading from the Bible and singing together. Their prayers as we close are even different than usually, full of wonder and awe.
I don’t know whether we’ll use the same devotions in years to come or look for something new, but I know that our Advent wreath is here to stay. It has already made the season feel extra special this year, and we’re all looking forward to the weeks to come.
(You can read more about what we did for Advent last year in “My *plans* for Advent.”)
This year I started early, found a few resources I really liked, and took December off from our usual composer study in favor of focusing on Christmas carols. My favorite Christmas CD comes with a book: Christmas Carols for a Kid’s Heart. We didn’t read the stories of the carols this year, but probably will go through next year during Advent. In addition to using mostly children’s voices on the CD, it also includes all the verses, which I really appreciate.
Another good album that has LOTS of great songs on it is the Christmas Carols CD from Cedarmont Kids (also available as an MP3 download on Amazon, so you can listen to samples.) This one sounds a little more like a stereotypical children’s recording, but I still find it enjoyable.
The last CD we used was A Classical Kids Christmas (also available as an MP3 download). I haven’t fully made up my mind about this album. It attempts to tell a story (I think) which I really couldn’t follow. I love the rest of the Classical Kids CDs, so I was a little disappointed with this album. Still, the production quality is excellent, and the music is beautiful. That’s really all I was looking for, so it’s still worth listening to (for us, anyway).
While I played everything on these CDs, I selected 4 carols that I wanted the boys to really feel like they knew, and then I put those at the beginning of our iPod playlist.
I figure these are songs they are guaranteed to hear throughout the season, especially at church, and I want them to recognize them and sing along. Next year we’ll add a few more to learn intentionally, and I’m sure they’ll be picking up others along the way. Hope you and your family are having a merry Christmas season!